What is pussy worship

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By MistressLolaRuin May 3, I bet if you're reading this blog post, you've watched porn at some point in your life. I've defended porn many times in the past. But, there is one aspect of porn which I cannot defend, and that is the serious lack of female sexual pleasure, and especially the depiction of GOOD pussy worship and outstanding cunnilingus. Rarely in mainstream pornography do I see a woman being given head, and even less do I see women being given what looks like GOOD head. The general story-line of a porno goes If you're a man reading this, and the only research you've ever done into pleasuring a woman is drawing on what you've seen men doing in mainstream porn movies, then you are FAILING your sexual partner.

So, here is an idiot proof guide to pleasuring your woman, peppered with some excellent advice from my twitter followers, which will hopefully give you somewhere to start from A quick disclaimer before we dive in I don't personally offer pussy worship as part of my sessions. First thing first And, you need to stop thinking of cunninlingus as a 'warm-up event' to a main act. For the vast majority of women whose pleasure depends on clitoral stimulation, THIS is the most important sex act, and the one most likely to rock her world and give her the earth shattering orgasm she deserves from you.

I'll let you in on a little secret. I felt under pressure to be a fantastic lover, and I was constantly worried I may not be doing it right. Too hard? Too soft? Too slow? Then, I reframed my thinking. My lovers pleasure was completely in my hands when I gave oral sex, and I was free to focus completely on them.

What if I took the time and effort to learn to be good at it? It's a real rush, being in complete power of another persons pleasure like that. As most people reading this are probably into kink, it's worth pointing out how giving head can be both a submissive OR a Dominant act. Focusing all your energy on giving your Top complete pleasure. Or, taking your submissive's pleasure completely into your own hands. It works both ways, no matter your kinky orientation. Most women give head without any intention of making men orgasm. They do so simply to give them pleasure, and make them feel good.

When you go down, do so with the intention of giving her a pleasurable experience from start to finish. If you can make her cum, of course that's fantastic. But for many people, having that as the sole intention can put a lot of pressure on both giver and receiver.

Not to mention, there are a multitude of different reasons why a woman may not be able to reach orgasm medication, stress, menopause Whilst I am going to include bringing your woman to orgasm in the following instructions, you should aim to be pleasure-orientated, NOT goal orientated. This is the mindset you should have when you worship pussy. Your aim is to completely 'let go' into the act of giving.

This is your opportunity to become completely lost in the intimacy of exploring her body, discovering what she likes, taking the time to spoil her and focus solely on her pleasure. This is an experience you are sharing with her. Quite often wrongly referred to as 'the vagina' which is actually just the entrance , the 'vulva' is the correct medical term for female genitalia. I am going to refer to it as the pussy, and it's comprised of the following parts Mon Pubis - A soft mound of flesh over the pubic bone Front Commissure - A highly sensitive area where the lips meet with the clitoris Clitoral Hood - A hood of skin made from the meeting of the lips which covers the highly sensitive clitoral glans in a similar way to a foreskin covering the head of the penis Clitoral Glans - Also referred to as the 'clitoris' although it is just the only visible part of a much wider structure.

Between mm large, it contains over nerve endings and is the only organ in the human body dedicated solely to sexual pleasure. Frenulum - The inner edges of the labia minora meet to form a highly sensitive area packed with nerve endings.

Urethra - The hole where urine comes from Labia Minora - Also known as the inner lips, they surround the clitoral glans, urethra and vaginal entrance and are packed with nerve endings and are highly sensitive Labia Majora - Also known as the outer lips, they are less sensitive than the inner lips and swell with blood during arousal Vagina - The entrance to the vagina Fourchette - The bottom meeting point for the lips Perineum - The space between the fourchette and anus, it has a network of blood and tissues and can be a good area to stimulate Anus - If you don't know what this is, you really are an idiot When you are worshipping pussy, there are a LOT of hot spots you want to include, but none are more important than the Clitoris.

Believe it or not, the full structure of the clitoris wasn't fully discovered until Just like the vulva is often wrongly called the vagina, the word 'clitoris' is often used just to describe the 'clitoral glans'. In fact, the full structure of the clitoris is mostly internal, reaching about 7cm in length. The internal strucure is made up of It expands all around the pussy, including deep inside towards the G-Spot, or more accurately named 'clitoral cluster'.

The clitoris is the only organ in the human body female or male made solely for the purpose of sexual pleasure. It would be remiss of me not to say that you should be seeking affirmative, enthusiastic consent from any woman you are with. No matter what your personal thoughts on the MeToo movement is, it should at the very least have informed you that the vast majority of women are dealing with some kind of sexual trauma, and that you should act accordingly. Gaining consent in a sexy way is a whole other blog post I'd love to write one day, but for now here's some general guidance on different ways to gain consent from the woman you're hoping to worship.

Whilst below I am going to give some fairly specific advice on how to worship pussy, the best guide will always be the woman you are worshipping. You should keep lines of communication open with her at all times. Prompt her to guide you. Ask her to tell you what feels good for her. Try to read how she reacts to different techniques. It's unlikely that everything I write here will work for every woman. You're job is to find out specifically what works for her. Every woman is different, and the below tips and tricks are simply a starting point.

Spend at least minutes arousing her before you even think of using your tongue on her. Use long body-length strokes with your hands, deep french kissing, teasing stroking, slowly undressing but leave her underwear on You want to build up the anticipation. You want her body flooded with feel good chemicals before you even make your way down to pleasuring her. When stimulated, breasts and nipples release oxycotin , the 'cuddling' hormone, increasing sensitivity to touch Always err on the side of gentle until you figure out how she likes it.

Listen to her breathing, and let that guide your touch. After some ample build-up, you can work your way down to worship her. The best position is her lying flat on her back on you on your front between her legs or, alternatively, knelt on the floor with her resting on the edge of the bed. You should be prepared to spend A LOT of time worshipping her, so get comfortable.

And for god sake, have clean and well trimmed fingernails. No one wants you scratching their insides. Now she knows you're going to worship her, you want to tease her. Make her ACHE for your mouth. The upper inner thighs are packed with nerve endings, so start there.

Plant slow, gentle kisses all over, but no where near her pussy yet. Treat her to slow, gentle fingertip strokes. Trace your tongue gently along the outside of her underwear. The more anticipation you can build before you touch her pussy, the better. Combine all of the above with slow, exhales of hot breath. Play with different, gentle sensations.

Now, only AFTER all this build up, should you remove her underwear, and give her what she is now longing for Keep in mind the two most important 'Don't' I listed earlier You're here as a worshipper, not a woodpecker. Start with a seriously wet tongue, and press it against the fourchette.

Lick the entire length upwards with a flat tongue and gentle pressure. Ease up on that pressure as you pass over the glans, and finish when the tip on your tongue is resting on the front commisure which will gently stimulate the clitoral shaft hidden just beneath.

Then, work your way back down again. You've made her ache for this, so drag out that first lick as long as possible, taking the time to try and enjoy every inch of her. Now, you want to repeat that 'First Lick' motion over and over again. The idea here is to excite her enough that her clitoral glans become desensitised and ready for more intense attention.

After you've done this for a little while, then you can inject some slight variations here and there. Some ideas include You want to keep those long, flat tongue licks as your 'main' move, but inject a little bit of unpredictability with the above variations. As you are doing this, take note What is she reacting to most? Which moves are making her moan? Does it seem she really doesn't like when you do 'x'? Pay close attention as you lavish her, discounting anything she seems not to like, and including a little more of what she does.

Regardless of what she likes, your main focus should be on building a steady rhythm. Finally, after you've really explored her, you can begin to pay attention to the clitoral glans by gently running your tongue over it as you continue worshipping her entire pussy. If she's enjoying it, begin to pay it more and more focus. If it seems like it's a little too much, go back to stimulating everywhere but, and try again after a few more minutes.

Once she is suitably warmed up for more intense focus on the clitoral glans, begin to slowly shift the majority of your focus there, gradually spending more and more time and attention on the upper half of her pussy. Continue with wet, gentle, flat tongue strokes, and then begin to explore some of the variations and see what feels good for her As before, you want to keep a steady rhythm whilst you explore how she likes to be worshipped, all the while keeping persistent contact with her clitoral glans.

Now that your paying some well deserved attention to the clitoral glans, it's also time to get your hands involved to really up the ante. Begin by teasingly exploring her using either your index finger or your thumb. Gentle strokes along the labia, the fourchette, the vagina and the front commisure are all excellent erogenous zones, especially when combined with licks. After a little while you can then insert a single finger, just a couple of inches. DO NOT do this roughly or too soon. Take note of how her body responds Did you feel her tighten around your finger?

Hold it still there for a few seconds, whilst your mouth and tongue works on the upper half of her vulva. You've probably heard of a G-Spot, which makes it sound like a 'separate' hot spot of pleasure, when in fact it is more accurately described as a 'Clitoral Cluster' If you have truly taken your time to really arouse every part of her, it should be engorged and fairly easy to find. You do not want to 'hammer' away at it, rather apply firm pressure, using the 'come hither' motion to massage her clitoris from the inside out, or gentle circular motions.

So now, you've played around and experimented, and you have gradually given her more and more of what she has responded to until shes able to take some more intense attention on both the clitoral glans AND clitoral cluster. At this point, you're probably applying firm pressure using your fingers inside her, and your tongue is gently swirling over her clitoral glans. Now, you want to UP the pressure on her clitoral glans. This is not a case of going faster or increasing speed. Slow and steady wins the race here boys.

What is pussy worship

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